Let Go......Break free....

                                                                 

Walking away, leaving, letting go is probably one of the hardest thing in this world. But sometimes, these are the best things to do, to move on completely in life. It sure does hurt, but its best for us in the long run. How many of us actually ‘let go’.

By letting go, I mean letting go of our past which haunts us, letting go of any unwanted memory, letting go of people who hurt us/left us, letting go of those to whom we do not really matter. How many of us walk around with these people and unwanted memories in our heart and mind.

Why does it get so difficult for us to ‘Let go’?

Why do we hang onto such ‘unwanted memories’ and ‘people’?

Why do we make these ‘people’ and ‘memories’ so important that it gets difficult to move ahead in life?

Why can’t we realize that as long as we are hanging onto such ‘people’ and ‘memories’; we are not giving life another chance?

Why can’t we forgive, forget and let go?

Well, maybe because at a subconscious level we are still deeply attached and influenced by such people. But there comes a time in life when we need to take a decision of what is worth holding onto and what is worth letting go. Be it your broken dreams, lost love, bad childhood, unfaithful friends and so on

Sometimes some people struggle to let go, they want to, but they are unable to. I see some people living their lives with so much of grief and sorrow within, but with a smile on their face. I must say they are doing a great job by keeping the smile intact, but its high time they decide what is right and let go of such painful memories completely and live life cheerfully. Yes it sure is tough and it might probably take some time, but if we try hard enough we can get rid of such memories which pulls us down and makes us miserable.

Most importantly letting go is an absolute must in life for growth and development. By letting go we are giving life, love and dreams yet another chance. If you are still grieving over your lost love, how will you find true love. If you are still residing on your broken dreams, how can you dare to dream again. If you are still thinking about your bad past, how can you justify your present. Remember there is a reason for everything that happens in our lives. Every single thing that happens has a very strong reason behind it, which we might fail to see in the short run. But in the long run it all makes perfect sense.

The gift of life is given to a privileged few, harness it with hope, faith and dreams and let go of every single thing which brings in negativity.

Cheers to all….and thanks for reading if you happen to read it…and keep your smile intact.

A tale of two hearts

I remember the first time I met her, way back in school. Like any other girl she was just another person, I didn’t know back then, that she would make such a big difference in my life….I mean life without her is like half of me is missing. Every conversation, every experience, every pain, every dream, every bond and every day has been redefined for me only because she exists. It’s been more than fifteen years now and the glow of our friendship still shines bright.

There has not been a single day in my life when she wasn’t there for me. She was right beside me, not only when I needed her the most but also when I was plain happy and wanted to share my happiness with someone. We watched each other grow, we went from being girls to women, we learnt from each other, we saw each others pain, we laughed at each others stupidity.

Every important occasion be it a happy one or a sad one, be it a break up or falling in love, be it a pain I fail to express or my smile. She has seen right through me and she is one person in the whole wide world I can’t make any excuses to. She is one person who can make me look at things from a totally different point of view. One word which describes her the best is ‘wise’. She can take the right and the best decisions in the world.

Also how can I forget our constant get together. Every word we speak, every laugh we shared and of course every gossip shared across the table will be locked up as a memory in out hearts.

Like she says ‘U’ and ‘I’ are something else. There is something which puts us together by heart. Something which we, still fail to understand. Sometimes I wonder if Paulo Coelho was right, as he states in one of his books named Brida…that there can be more then one soul mate and you can recognize a soul mate by the shine in his/her eyes. May be our souls are connected. I don’t know but what matters is that every single moment spent with her be it on the phone or a casual get together or gearing up for an occasion has been worth reliving.

I would like to thank her for being who she is :Those never ending conversations in CCD, laughing and giggling for no good reason and cribbing over silly issues, talking over the phone almost every single day…….Hope this bond lasts forever and I thank god for bringing her into my life …My major amigo, my guardian angel. May she get all the happiness in the world and I thank her for all the kindness, honesty, warmth and goodness showered. If there is one gift which we would like to give each other is the ability to see ourselves from each others eyes. Its only then will we know how much we mean to each other.
Sis this is for you….thanks a ton…:)…Love you loads…:).Hope this comes as a surprise to you
Dedicated to Summiya Safoora:)