Walking away, leaving, letting go is probably
one of the hardest thing in this world. But sometimes, these are the best
things to do, to move on completely in life. It sure does hurt, but its best
for us in the long run. How many of us actually ‘let go’.
By letting go, I mean letting go of our past
which haunts us, letting go of any unwanted memory, letting go of people who
hurt us/left us, letting go of those to whom we do not really matter. How many
of us walk around with these people and unwanted memories in our heart and
mind.
Why does it get so difficult for us to ‘Let go’?
Why do we hang onto such ‘unwanted memories’ and
‘people’?
Why do we make these ‘people’ and ‘memories’ so
important that it gets difficult to move ahead in life?
Why can’t we realize that as long as we are
hanging onto such ‘people’ and ‘memories’; we are not giving life another
chance?
Why can’t we forgive, forget and let go?
Well, maybe because at a subconscious level we
are still deeply attached and influenced by such people. But there comes a time
in life when we need to take a decision of what is worth holding onto and what
is worth letting go. Be it your broken dreams, lost love, bad childhood,
unfaithful friends and so on
Sometimes some people struggle to let go, they
want to, but they are unable to. I see some people living their lives with so
much of grief and sorrow within, but with a smile on their face. I must say
they are doing a great job by keeping the smile intact, but its high time they
decide what is right and let go of such painful memories completely and live
life cheerfully. Yes it sure is tough and it might probably take some time, but
if we try hard enough we can get rid of such memories which pulls us down and
makes us miserable.
Most importantly letting go is an absolute must
in life for growth and development. By letting go we are giving life, love and
dreams yet another chance. If you are still grieving over your lost love, how
will you find true love. If you are still residing on your broken dreams, how
can you dare to dream again. If you are still thinking about your bad past, how
can you justify your present. Remember there is a reason for everything that
happens in our lives. Every single thing that happens has a very strong reason
behind it, which we might fail to see in the short run. But in the long run it
all makes perfect sense.
The gift of life is given to a privileged few,
harness it with hope, faith and dreams and let go of every single thing which
brings in negativity.
Cheers to all….and thanks for reading if you
happen to read it…and keep your smile intact.
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