Sunday, 12 August 2012

Let Go......Break free....


                                                                 
Walking away, leaving, letting go is probably one of the hardest thing in this world. But sometimes, these are the best things to do, to move on completely in life. It sure does hurt, but its best for us in the long run. How many of us actually ‘let go’.
By letting go, I mean letting go of our past which haunts us, letting go of any unwanted memory, letting go of people who hurt us/left us, letting go of those to whom we do not really matter. How many of us walk around with these people and unwanted memories in our heart and mind.
Why does it get so difficult for us to ‘Let go’?
Why do we hang onto such ‘unwanted memories’ and ‘people’?
Why do we make these ‘people’ and ‘memories’ so important that it gets difficult to move ahead in life?
Why can’t we realize that as long as we are hanging onto such ‘people’ and ‘memories’; we are not giving life another chance?
Why can’t we forgive, forget and let go?
Well, maybe because at a subconscious level we are still deeply attached and influenced by such people. But there comes a time in life when we need to take a decision of what is worth holding onto and what is worth letting go. Be it your broken dreams, lost love, bad childhood, unfaithful friends and so on
Sometimes some people struggle to let go, they want to, but they are unable to. I see some people living their lives with so much of grief and sorrow within, but with a smile on their face. I must say they are doing a great job by keeping the smile intact, but its high time they decide what is right and let go of such painful memories completely and live life cheerfully. Yes it sure is tough and it might probably take some time, but if we try hard enough we can get rid of such memories which pulls us down and makes us miserable.
Most importantly letting go is an absolute must in life for growth and development. By letting go we are giving life, love and dreams yet another chance. If you are still grieving over your lost love, how will you find true love. If you are still residing on your broken dreams, how can you dare to dream again. If you are still thinking about your bad past, how can you justify your present. Remember there is a reason for everything that happens in our lives. Every single thing that happens has a very strong reason behind it, which we might fail to see in the short run. But in the long run it all makes perfect sense.
The gift of life is given to a privileged few, harness it with hope, faith and dreams and let go of every single thing which brings in negativity.
Cheers to all….and thanks for reading if you happen to read it…and keep your smile intact.

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